I write about my biggest fears: Phoebe Waller-Bridge

What troubles the writer is the speculation that a female screenwriter could only have drawn such lifelike characters from real life. Advertising

The creator and star of dark comedy Fleabag said she asks the question “what if” through the hit BBC Two show, which follows her title character, a 30-something woman and her misadventures with life, family and love. I write about losing my best friend or losing my mum, or not communicating with my dad, or not getting on with his new partner, and all those things are my worst fears: whereas actually my mum’s alive and well, my best friend is alive and well and we have an unbelievable relationship, my relationship with both my siblings is incredible, I get on really well with my stepmother and my dad; but it’s the ‘what if?’” Waller-Bridge said on How to Fail with Elizabeth Day podcast. That autobiographical assumption is something I’m asked about a lot. Advertising

“Women can make things up too! I’d always rather believe the former.” 
Waller-Bridge also said the success of the show and the sudden fame that followed exposed her family to questions about their personal life. It is either because the show feels so raw and real that people think it’s real, or it’s because people assume there’s a limit to a woman’s imagination. “Because it’s about family and everything, my family suddenly experienced this really intense focus from people in their lives, and people asking about the show and asking about me, and one of my regrets is I wish I’d seen that coming. “They were actually taking the brunt of the profile of the show getting bigger. It’s not all our diaries! They were being asked all the questions about the show… Basically, there was just a communication breakdown with my family,” she said. “It might be to do with the fact I’m a woman, but it also might not be. 0
Comment(s) “Of course I’m drawing on really personal things and things that echo in real life, but I write about my biggest fears.