Sutapa Sikdar: Irrfan always saw a rhythm in everything, even in chaos


His strive for perfection doesn’t let me settle for ordinary in anything. It’s unbelievable for us but I would put it in Irrfan’s words, “it’s magical” whether he is there or not there, and that’s what he loved, he never loved one dimensional reality. Sevanti Limaye (Kokilaben hospital). It takes time but it will bloom and the fragrance will spread and touch all the souls whom I won’t call them fans but family for years to come.”
Babil posted this note in his Instagram stories, after the demise of his father and actor Irrfan Khan. I find this 2 and 1/2 years to have been an interlude, which had it’s own beginning, middle and culmination with Irrfan helming the role of the orchestra conductor, separate from the 35 years of our companionship, ours was not a marriage, it was a union. It’s difficult to explain what a wondrous, beautiful, overwhelming, painful and exciting this journey has been. Nitesh Rohtogi (Max hospital Saket) who held our hand in the beginning, Dr. I see my little family, in a boat, with both my sons Babil and Ayaan, paddling it forward, with Irrfan guiding them “wahan nahi, yahan se modo” but since life is not cinema and there are no retakes, I sincerely wish my children sail this boat safely with their father’s guidance in mind and rockabye through the storm. (Photo: Sutapa Sikdar/Facebook)
Two days after the death of Bollywood actor Irrfan Khan, his wife Sutapa Sikdar on Friday released a heartbreaking statement. Dan Krell (UK), Dr. We met some amazing people in this journey and the list is endless, but there are some whom I have to mention, our oncologist Dr. By: Entertainment Desk | New Delhi |

Published: May 1, 2020 12:53:39 pm

Writer Sutapa Sikdar thanked fans for their support after husband Irrfan Khan’s death. I want to assure everyone that this is not a loss, it is a gain. I find this 2 and 1/2 years to have been an interlude, which had it’s own beginning, middle and culmination with Irrfan helming the role of the orchestra conductor, separate from the 35 years of our companionship, ours was not a marriage, it was a union.”
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Read Sutapa Sikdar’s eulogy here:
“How can I write this as a family statement when the whole world is taking it as a personal loss? How can I begin to feel alone when millions are grieving with us at the moment? Irrfan Khan’s elder son Babil had on Thursday posted a note in his Instagram stories, thanking friends for their love. It’s a gain of the things he taught us, and now we shall finally begin to truly implement it and evolve. 📣 The Indian Express is now on Telegram. Looking back at her life with Irrfan Khan, Sutapa said, “It’s difficult to explain what a wondrous, beautiful, overwhelming, painful and exciting this journey has been. The only thing I have a grudge against him is; he has spoiled me for life. There was a rhythm which he always saw in everything, even in cacophony and chaos, so I have learnt to sing and dance to the music of that rhythm, even with my tone-deaf voice and two left feet. Shidravi (UK), my heartbeat and my lantern in the dark Dr. I asked my children, if possible, they could sum up a lesson taught by their father that has been important to them;
Babil: ’Learn to surrender to the dance of uncertainty and trust your faith in the universe”
Ayaan: “Learn to control your mind and to not let it control you.”
Tears will flow as we will plant a raat ki rani tree, his favourite, to the place where you have put him to rest after a victorious journey. Click here to join our channel (@indianexpress) and stay updated with the latest headlines
For all the latest Entertainment News, download Indian Express App. Funnily, our life was a masterclass in acting, so when the dramatic entry of the “uninvited guests” happened, I had by then learnt to see a harmony in the cacophony. © IE Online Media Services Pvt Ltd

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Irrfan Khan breathed his last on April 29 in Mumbai’s Kokilaben Dhirubhai Ambani Hospital, after a long battle with cancer.